Terlalu Istimewa ( Part II )

Whenever things do not go my way, I’m glad someone sent me this card that I would always treasure….

No matter what, I’m here for you.

When you’ve had one of those days,

When you feel like your hair looks funny,

And your face breaks out,

And all your clothes are all wrong,

I’ll be here to listen and help you through.

When you have too much work to do,

And you feel like people

Are being too hard on you,

And you don’t know what to do,

I’ll be here to listen and help you through.

When something doesn’t work out the way you hope,

Or someone special breaks your heart,

I’ll be here to listen,

And remind you how special you are.

No matter what,

I’ll be here for you,

Because that’s what friends are for.

Note:

A good friend will bail you out of jail. A true friend will be sitting next to you saying… “ We screwed up, but we have fun! ”

A quantitative measurement

( ancient time )

Shakespeare : Shall I compare thee to the summer's day? Thou art more lovely and more temperate...

Robert Burns : My love is like a red, red rose.. That’s newly sprung in June..

My love is like the melody... That's sweetly played in tune...

( modern time )

Mr X : What the crap are you referring to?

Comparing one's love to a blooming rose would only be deemed romantic if you're a gallant knight in shining armor... In modern situation, this is NO longer applicable! It will only result in the most unladylike scorn ( if you are lucky ) or poof…. There she goes, to someone who lavishes her with one diamond ring, two pairs of Gucci and Jimmy Choo to adorn her legs, three pairs of Armani, Donna Karan and Zang Toi's suits, the list goes on....

Life is... a quantitative measurement, after all. It started from the day we were born to the very day we bid farewell to the world. It has always been a competition; the number of siblings you have, the number of As in your report card, the number of goals you score, the number of medals you collect on Sports Day, the number of ikan laga after a day out at the nearby paddy fields, the Piggie Bank money; a harmless, childish obsession - or so you thought.

You grew up and found that the whole thing did not stop there. More rat race! People no longer look for what used-to-be essential qualities such as compassion, thoughtfulness, tolerance, dignity in even the simplest basic task; instead, they quantify these qualities into number forms. If one is educated, how many degrees does he possess? Is he a Masters or even better, PhD holder? ( Be warned that first degrees are insufficient nowadays! Merely a Diploma holder is a major turn off. ) So, he is not that educated, but how many cars/ houses/ estates/ factories / acres of lands does he own? ( They seem oblivious to the fact that one who owns all those material possessions, often comes with excess baggage - kids!!!)

Anyway, so Kassim Selamat fails to impress his Ibu Mertuaku as he has neither the education nor the material wealth; that leaves him with one more option; he could learn a trick or two from Mundo Magic or that Fuiyoo-Magic guy who can turn the makcik's RM5 into RM50! Failure to do so will result in him being the object of ridicule among Sabariah's family - in particular that well-off and educated Dr Ismadi...

Reality bites, and today, just as I thought that everyone is created equal, I found that some are more equal than others. Is the moral of the story derived from The Animal Farm? ( All animals are created equal but some are more equal than others… Hence, majority of the animals try to walk, talk and act like human beings – on their two legs. ) Funny, someone once asked me to find someone from 'my own class', today I discovered that even if you are with 'your own class', that one piece of paper ( or is it two? ) still reigns. Qualities only governed in the ancient era.

Enough said. I surrender. I'm going to retreat to some dark corners and sing that Super califragilistic expialidocious while sweeping the chimney and what ever trash left by the others... After all, nobody wants to do the dirty work...

Super califragilistic expialidocious... Even though the sound of it is sometimes quite atrocious...If you sing loud enough you’ll always sound precocious...Super califragilistic expialidocious

( So, how many nursery rhymes do you know of? )

Driven.

I don’t drive.
I can’t drive.

I’m always driven… not by ambition but by the others! In my previous life, I must have been one of those princesses who required an entourage of four ample-bodied men ( at least ) to bring her from one point to another on a tandu. Imagine the misery that those men had to go through just to ferry the Sultan’s princess ( translated: me! ) from one castle to the other, or from one country to another. Think of Princess Hang Li Po or Puteri Gunung Ledang!!! As I would be a super-shoppaholic princess, I thank God they did not have Pavilion, The Gardens, Berjaya Times Square back then!

Anyway, earth calling everyone – so, I am not a princess and I don’t live in the Malaccan Sultanate era. No big deal. The fact still remains that I cannot drive. In fact, based on my ( lack of ) performance and achievement, I qualify to be nominated as the Life-time President of PWCD ( People Who Cannot Drive ) Association. Actually, it is an honour to be in this association as it is rare to find people who are not driving nowadays! ( *Tatt, Norli – there’s still hope for us! ) Thus, this entry which is dedicated to all the cab drivers that I have encountered … and those kind-hearted friends ( and ex-boyfriends ) who have suffered just to send me to places at the strangest hour of the day … is born.

Being a Communication lecturer, a taxi ride is always the best place to practise on my communication skills. Other than letting me master on both *verbal and *non-verbal theories, it helps clarify the difference between *one-way and two-way communication.

Throughout my years of stay in this capital of Malaysia ( sorry Putrajaya… KL is where my heart is! ), I have encountered many types of drivers; multi-racial ones. One day, I would find myself in a cab driven by a Malay pakcik ( or sometimes, my age or even younger than me ) wearing a big serban with kohl-lined eyes talking about his grown up children; the next day, I would find myself listening to an Indian driver giving me the latest updates on MRR2 issue; at times, I would find myself driven by an old Chinese man who drove his taxi as if we were taking a stroll in an other-wise busy Ampang Elevated Highway ( … and got honked by other irate drivers! Sorry! ).

I once met a taxi driver who operated his own radio station ( via his taxi ). Imagine boarding into a cab and being entertained by a DJ. It was fun listening to him entertaining all the other taxi drivers with his chatty remarks and playing requested songs on air. He also gave a traffic overview to all the other ‘listeners’ – very much like the services offered by existing radio stations nowadays. Thankfully the driver did not conduct a live interview with his passengers or else, I would not make it to the office on time! ( I would surely have so much to talk about!!! )

Contrary to my mom’s fear regarding her daughter’s safety, I have also encountered a few kind and concerned souls on my taxi trips. When I was staying in Keramat, I frequently traveled in a particular taxi that one day, the driver let me rode for free since he did not have the small change for RM50. Imagine! Most people would make such a row over that! Another famous taxi story would be the pakcik who sent us home on one of our girls-night-out event one early morning, in which, living in a Malay neighborhood, we wanted to make as minimal noise as possible. The kind-hearted pakcik actually waited for us to safely unlock the gate and of course, the front door’s grills… Just as we were to about to enter and let out a relief sigh, he gave the loudest, friendliest goodbye honk ever!!! Of course, there are drivers who got so familiar with us ( being the regulars of Wall$t ) that they would straight away inform the other fellow drivers; “ This one goes to Keramat! That one goes back to Jinjang! ” We did not even need to tell the drivers our addresses – some kind of VIP treatment, right?

Some drivers drive their taxis full time, some do it during their spare time. Some hold regular jobs, some irregular. It is not surprising that my one-time encounter with a shaman happened in a taxi. ( Imagine, some people have to search high and low just to find these mediums! ) Tales of married people who kena buat, wives who discovered that their husbands have gone astray, an angry landlord who wanted to chase the current tenants out, a police station which is haunted by an angry spirit – I listened with awe. It was then the pakcik turned to me and asked of my status. Upon discovering that I’m still single, he offered to help cepatkan my jodoh by asking me to visit him and bring him my ….. cosmetic! ( Phew… Was I relief!! I thought it would be something else! ) Anyway, he offered to give me a crash reading based on my name ( and the person that I was seeing back then *); and oh my, I went to the office telling everyone about this shaman!

There are other taxi drivers who would just keep to themselves, letting you do your own stuff, and there are also DOM ( Dirty Old Man ). The former gives me the serenity that I need especially when I need to prepare myself for my 8.30 am classes or mark what ever assignments / quizzes / tests that should have been marked during the long weekends. As for DOM, I would straight away reach for my cell and busily text my friends or dial any numbers and engage myself in the most animated conversation ever!

My inability to drive ( just because I once successfully steered Bapak’s car into the kolam ) has also caused anxiety among those closest to me. A dear friend often claimed that she would be pulling her handbag by the time she reached her home at Gombak after a night out. The poor girl had to send me off to Melawati or Keramat or where ever I was staying back then, and another friend back to Jinjang ( or vice versa ) – so by the time she reached the comfort of her own home, it would either be very late or… very early ( the following day )!

Another kind-hearted soul often troubled by my princess-like quality would have to be a friend-cum-younger sister whose car I broke into early last month! In our enthusiasm to get to the famous Satay Samuri, we found ourselves locked out – the car keys dangling innocently inside where else the two of us were standing next to the car, grinning from ear to ear. Having mastered the art of car-jacking ( from her! ), I managed to unlock the car. ( Never under estimate the power of … someone who cannot drive! )

“ What do you mean, you can’t drive? #@*&%@!!! ”

Okay, so I’ll learn how to drive… I promise… There’s no need to swear! As for the time being, TAXI!

Being inspired by Adibah Amin and the likes

I think I have found my calling. Nope, it’s none of those physical bungee jumping or even that Akademi Fantasia participation ( though my niece once complimented me by saying ‘Mak Lang ni macam artislah’ … poor disillusioned girl ) ; in fact, it’s nothing glamorous. Enough of being in the lamp light ( or as a friend would comment, ‘she – another person la, not me - is THE lamp light’ ); too much spotlight can do more harm than good! It’s nothing charitable or directly contributing to the charity as well. I can’t predict and therefore save the future like Tru’s Calling or Heroes, I am just a Plain Jane – to save the world, one must have the super hero / heroin’s physical measurement as well as looks!

So, what’s this self-proclamation all about?

I found myself currently inspired by local writers such as Lydia Teh, Karim Raslan, Dina Zaman and of course, my all-time favourite Adibah Amin… It used to be Enid Blyton, Sidney Sheldon and John Grisham. Does this mean that as I grow older, I learn to appreciate and keep in touch with my root more? I don’t know – I still sound stupid when I speak Bahasa :o) - but one thing for sure, now, I always find myself sitting in front of this faithful computer and… write! This is my calling. It sure feels good to be able to talk about your personal experience or express your view on a particular issue without being scrutinized by the others ( well, not at the time being ). Sometimes, when ideas struck, I found myself rushing to my office cubicle cum sanctuary, much to the amazement and amusement of the other colleagues.

A conversation with another friend ( my partner-in-crime ) over scrumptious dinner at Chao Pha Ra Ya restaurant resulted in this Life is… blog. Of course, I was once involved in the production of Effective Essay Writings for PMR, but that does not count! ( Until now I still wonder how on earth could we produce that particular book with all the clubbing and hectic life style? )

Anyway, my first honest-to-goodness piece was written at the lowest point of my life late last year, as I waited for the bus that would ferry me from JB to KL. I recall sitting in a run-down fast food restaurant, facing a greasy fried chicken meal, trying so hard to control my tears – never had I felt so alone at that time. Life was a real mess; my faith in God prevented me from attempting anything stupid. It was then I took out my Pirates-of-the-Caribbean note book, and started writing. Amidst the tears and laughters ( that followed soon ), a writer was born ( hahaha ).

The much-hype Honk! If You’re Malaysian by Lydia Teh resulted in me purchasing books by the local writers and – I was glued ever since. Her entries were entertaining, amusing, witty - something that you can relate to! I browsed her blog and discovered the ‘How Malaysian Are You’ quiz. ( Idd, I’ll e-meow you and tell you all about my kick-cock shoe later*, okay … )

Karim Raslan’s Ceritalah and Ceritalah Lagi might be someone else’s cup of tea ( though I have to admit that he’s one hell of good looking guy ) – he might be a Mr. Espresso, too deep to fathom here.

Dina Zaman’s I am Muslim shows me that kohl-lined eyes and bigger-than-big serban do not make one a better Muslim – Remember the Sky Kingdom in Terengganu?

Reading the above-mentioned books remind me of a name that has been around for as far as I can remember – the one and only Adibah Amin! Most of us grew up reading her As I Was Passing ( other than listening to Back Street Boys! ) during preps – where you opted to go to the library so that you could read story books ( and ended up sleeping in the magazine section )!

How could one ever forget her?

She let us wander through her own recollections and open up a bigger world to an otherwise kampong girl like me. Forget Mallory Towers – Sekolah Kebangsaan Tiga Papan has so much to offer! ( I believe this school is located somewhere in Sabah – and no, neither Adibah Amin nor I have been to this school. ) Imagine, to my delight, noticing her As I Was Passing ( Vol. 1 and 2 ) at a bookstore in KL Sentral. I quickly grabbed the first volume and it was an excuse not to entertain that pakcik baju batik and his companion seated next to me during the domestic KL-AS flight. ( Actually, I was down with flu and that Actifast prevented me from having an intellectual discourse with anyone… Sorry, pakcik! )

Anyway, if Adibah Amin can do it, why can’t we? And what happened to my first honest-to-goodness piece? It was too honest to be uploaded in this blog. Someday, when I can finally laugh over what had actually happened, I would post it but until then.. let it remains a mystery. Though my language ( as another friend commented ) may suit a group of teenagers more than adults, I would continue writing and blogging … until I find another calling! ( Being the next Elizabeth Taylor?!! )

* I had a bad fall last Sunday due to my kick-cock shoe and decided not to continue with my intention of going to PWTC. Sorry, kids!

* kick-cock shoe: Ever worn a pair of high heels before and noticed the sound produced? Hence, kick-cock shoe….. Thanks, Lydia!

Begins at 40?

Everyone remembers 2006’s Wedding of the Year. Yup, I’m talking about Siti Nurhaliza and Datuk K’s grand till-death-do-us-part event. Other than the nationwide coverage and congested roads leading to Kuala Lumpur Convention Center, the news broke so many younger gentlemen’s hearts – wondering where did they go wrong. It also resulted in a spur-of-the-moment love-lorn song as broadcasted via the internet!

I am sure a lot of younger-than-Datuk K-gentlemen out there cursed themselves for not playing the card right! Some might even contemplate of simplifying their names ( e.g. Syed Muhamad Kalbu Habshi Jawahir Al-Attas or Abu Bakar Clonnie Daud Effendi Farha ) to simpler alphabets like SMKHJA or ABCDEF…. Some, if they could turn back the time, would undoubtedly take the first flight to London for her infamous Royal Albert Hall’s concert. Some would probably head to the nearest “How to Seduce a Younger Woman” class had they known that Siti has a liking for matured man. But the fact remains – Siti married Datuk K. Period.

“ Why Datuk K? Why did she choose a 47-year-old man to become her prince? ”

Haven’t you heard of fate or qada’ and qadar? Love conquers all. That’s why. Enough said.

Life begins at 40, or so they claim. This explains a lot of the encounters I've had with the particular group of men!

1. When I was staying in Melawati, A ( age: 40-something ) was so smitten by me that he drove me all the way to my office via the congested Genting Klang Road and offered to render the service every day! NOTE: He could either be very rich, didn't have to work for a living or he could be someone's driver.

2. B, a 40-something self-claimed national athlete ( hey... I was and still am a 'kaki bangku'... I don't do sports, okay! ), claimed that he had a liking for me and offered me to become his girl during our first meet. NOTE: What does a relationship and a sports meet have in common? I bolted like a scared rabbit!

3. A musician friend tried to fix me up with another 40-something friend. NOTE: I grew up watching P. Ramlee's "Ibu Mertuaku", so I didn't think it was a good idea. Don't get me wrong, I have nothing againts music men: but the thought of blood oozing out of someone's eyes is NOT my idea of happiness.

Why do people claim that life begins at 40? It might be due to this: As one grows older, one grows more confident and ambitious ( both men and women alike ) – especially when it comes to the affair of the hearts. This might give us an explanation to the likes of Datuk K, Melawati guy and the athlete ( or used to be one ).

Therefore, it took me by surprise when a 40-something friend ( male, of course ) confided in me that he found the idea of female associates going after him ( a happily married man ) as alarming. “ Are they blind or what?” he proclaimed.

I was equally shocked. " Is he for real or what? " Anyway, I found out much later that .... NAY, he wasn't for real either! LOL.... You know what I mean!

A party!

I WAS a serious clubber – meaning, I used to frequent clubs, night after night, week after week – without fail.

My Monday to Friday schedule would see me waking up at 6.00 am, rushing to work ( with a briefcase that doubled as a suit case for the night ), teaching / conducting lectures, quizzes, tests, exams, and when nights came – I would be seen rushing to our favourite clubs / night spots – all these done without having to go home. ( Note: the briefcase! )

The live bands’ performance would determine our clock-out time. A Somebody-shoot-me status would see us staying only for dinner ( before moving on to the next scene ); So-so would last us for the first set; where else a Happening status would see us through until the club’s closing time. We would be the club’s unofficial managers / promoters / language inspectors cum the band’s set writers as well as song selectors! Coming back at 2 or 3 am didn’t stop us from waking up religiously at 6.00 am, ready to greet a brand new day!

For those who thought that drinking was our past time, you were wrong. We were not ( still aren’t ) even the social drinkers. We drank, all right – Coke, iced-lemon tea, hot chocolate and the likes. We had our close encounter with liquor-laced orange juice compliment from the two Middle East patrons at Wall$t; thankfully, the club captain came to the rescue and took the drinks away! ( And scolded us, at the same time?!!! Strange, we did not even know it was laced with alcohol and we had not taken a sip of the drink, either… )

Had they set up a club for non-drinkers, I could have been the Patron or Chief Executive Officer with all my non-drinker friends as the board of directors. The other strange thing about the whole scenario is that we would be surrounded by friends who consumed alcoholic beverages as if it was mineral water. I once befriended a serious drinker … but the idea of spending my nights waiting for my knight to regain consciousness nearby a smelly drain was kind of appalling! I am no Florence Nightingale. Nevertheless, thanks to him – I got a brilliant idea for my yahoo username ;-)

We were not your typical SPG ( Sarung Party Girls? ) either; in the first place, we were not SPG at all! You wouldn’t see any one of us in little black dresses ( we couldn’t fit into any ), neither would you see us dancing drunkenly on the stools / stage or even on the dance floor! But if you were to ask any of the bands who used to perform in front of two ( minimum ) or more, serious-looking ( sometimes laughing hysterically! ) ladies in office attires, we were the club’s…. quality controllers! Long before IIM earned its ISO9001 certificate, we had been awarding clubs with similar certification. We were ruthless and those ( bands, waiters / waitresses/ bar tenders,/ managers even other patrons ) who did not meet our standard, would find themselves in hot soup!

Essential criteria include:

Bands

• Song selection – Too much Reggaes kill, save this for die-hard Rasta fans; Techno causes death ( even to pigs! ); you’d better entertain all those in-coming song requests especially those written by similar hand writings as failure to do so will result in your contract being terminated in the middle of the month… opps, sorry! U2’s With or Without You is a must… it’s clearly stated in the contract…. Nobody does Village People’s YMCA anymore… ABBA’s Dancing Queen? Once in a purple moon would be alright, BUT please make sure that we’re not around when you do this. We appreciate Cake’s I Will Survive, not Gloria Gainer’s…. Oh yes, Glenn – we love your Faithfully!
• Attires – Please advise your female singer to cover up, we have those under 12 here! As for the guys, leave all those sequin-covered uniforms in your wardrobe! Bright red, bright green, bright orange – puhlees!!!! With all the spotlights, please tone down the colours….
• Hair – Only Alleycats get away with those BIG hair dos. Blonde wigs would only look good if you are … blonde! Wind-blown, messy hair is so …. Messy! We had enough of screaming at our students for having long and unruly hair, so don’t expect us to conduct a similar spot check as well.
• Social skills / communicative abilities – Do mingle around… It would do wonders for your business! We also expect articulate front liners, not one who could only mumble mmm, aaa, iiiii, uuu…. And no more underwear joke, Fredo! ( The last time I visited Holiday Villa.. this was the rage! )
• English proficiency – Do not attempt any English songs unless you are very, very sure of your pronunciation, diction, subject-verb-agreement and the likes!!! Be sure of your partner’s gender before going on stage ( to prevent you from introducing your good-looking male singer’s next song with “ SHE will sing us… ” ) …
• Dance moves – Synchronized dance movement ( YMCA , get it? ) is so yesterday, no one does it anymore! Robbie Williams and Ricky Martin get away with any types of movement, so will you!
• Body language / eye-contact / facial expression – Swallow your smirk if you were to see the same Back at 1 or Koch Koch Hota Hai song requests, and please bear in mind that Put can read lips very well! Don’t bother to check whether you’re wearing the same pair of shoes throughout the night, either… Look at the audience, or at least, pretend!

Clubs

Ambience

• Throw that disco lights out! Save that for The 70s Show!
• Provide better lightings especially with those broken floor tiles … or is that the reason?
• Check out that on-screen advertisements or you’ll end up getting sermons from us …. Oh well, we’ll correct the language for you guys, FOC – only for the first time, Sam!
• Don’t bother separating the smokers from the non-smokers, ultimately, we all end up being secondary smokers (and had a difficult time explaining to our moms / dads / sister-in-laws later…)

Staff

• Please inform that new waitress to mind her manners – we know the so-called accident in which she accidentally pushed in the chair too hard that it hit my friend’s knee was NOT an accident.
• Please improve on your language – we know that it doesn’t take a rocket scientist to work here, but surely you can converse better than that!
• Acting high-and-mighty with someone who is even higher-and-mightier might not be a good idea!!!
• Don’t you have anything better to do than chatting up that cute singer every time he is on break? ( And please make sure that you deliver our request straight to him! )
• Those complimentary Diavolla / hot chocolate / coke refills / Tiger bags, t’shirts, pens are truly appreciated… in fact, the idea of being scolded for something that we didn’t do ( the liquor-laced orange juice ) was kind of sweet as well!

Meals

• How could we forget those heavenly Diavolla, spicy spaghetti, seafood chowder, mud pie? And thanks for pointing out the difference between Jack Daniel and Monterey Jack!
• Enough said… no complaints! WE wouldn’t be here if it wasn’t for the food…

Patrons

• Please take note that we are very selective – and we do not simply fall for any pick-up lines, and please make sure that you get my name right before making a dedication with the band!
• Please be informed that the main singer could either be our long-lost big brother who would look after us with his eagle-like eyes ( thank you, Suresh! ) or someone that I’m currently dating ( before you attempt #1 )…
• No Bacardi Coke, Virgin Mary, Kampai, Tequila shots, Long-island Tea for us – attempts would only result in you being barred from entering the clubs the next time ( patrons / bands ). Of course, what ever drinks you decide to buy us would be screened by multi-levels screening committee members before they could even reach us…
• Yes, the ‘major babes’ that the song was dedicated to would be us ( though you couldn’t really see us previously )…

Clubbing was fun; nevertheless, just as it took a tragedy for me to opt to clubbing as an escapism, it also took another tragedy to point out that I had enough of the whole thing. However, as so many tend to associate clubbing with social ills, low morale, ignorance of reality; I just wish to point out that spending night after nights in dimly-lit clubs does not make us lesser Muslims. We still keep to the halal haram guidelines – the muhrim and non-muhrims relationships, the no consumption of alcohol ( Coke been our staple diet ) and so forth. We did not, and till now, still do NOT smoke. After all, if you want to be jahat, you can still be jahat elsewhere. ( If you want to be bad, you can still be bad elsewhere. )

I don’t remember ignoring or neglecting life priorities back then. I remember going through proposals, working papers, quizzes all while listening to the bands – and all while writing out the song titles for each set. We did not confuse Belbin’s personality theories with Westlife’s or Linkin Park’s new songs; in fact, it was kind of fun keeping track of the music that our students listened to! During examination times, we would have the ever-helpful staff sorting out exam papers and totaling the marks for us.(Don’t worry, they did not mark the papers! ) They were all so eager to assist; either by holding out a torch or candle or just by standing behind our backs and giving us the moral support – probably, it gave them an insight into a totally different life. It moved us when some also tried to fast during the holy Ramadhan and curb the drinking habit as well. Though we all come from different social background, we sure learnt a lot from each other. Education is not only derived in a formal classroom, it could be obtained anywhere, even at the very least expected venue.

I met some of my best friends during my clubbing stints, and we still remain the best of friends – we find out now that there is more to life than just staying up late at nights, either in a seedy environment or a noisy mamak stall at Uptown, and that sometimes, it sure feels good to reminisce of the good old days. Some of us are married ( either to the band members… or the patrons… or to those who are NOT related to the music industry or club scene at all ), have our own kids where else some, might still be searching for their soul mates – one who can sing, or play the guitar, or the drum, the list goes on! Sometimes, we just can’t escape our past!

Life is… a party. So, let the music plays on.

Post-script: Contrary to what people believe, each of us is a music man / woman.

ACKNOWLEDGEMENT:

This entry goes out to the management and staff of Wall$t and Blues Café, in particular Sam Nair, Isaac with that gigi naga choker , Abang Buck & Chere (who made the best Diavolla pizza) , Pak Mat, Zul, Nora ( Wall$t ) and Ganesan (our Bonia watches are real la, unlike yours!), Putra, Lutfy ( Blues Café ) with a big THANK YOU!!!! Please take note that these two clubs are no longer in existence in order to make way for development or what-so-ever; nevertheless, the happy times remain. ( Of course, Planet Hollywood, Hard Rock Café and Uncle Chili’s took over after that… )

Other worth-mentioning people would have to be Suresh ‘Artstream’ Kumar aka Big Bro ( I’m also excited this being our 10^th year of acquaintance ) and his entourage; Russell, Aji, Eddie Mabuk ( I can’t believe I’m acknowledging this character! ) and Hyder, ( Sarcastic ) Glenn of Shindig, and of course, the original line-up of Skyhigh – Ali, Sham, Sudin, Kamal, Nana / Fiza / Zura, opps, Abang Man aka Papa Min, Bai, Par etc etc etc… Not to forget Factor 7’s Izan, too… Zura, thanks for putting me up – Kuching, Langkawi etc…

My partners-in-crime, Put ( may you rest in peace ), Ajun ( who introduced us to… Fredo & The Flinstones… okay lah tu, Jun! ), Wan ( sorry you had to drive us to places as none of us could drive! ) , Eddot ( aka Cleopatra .. acewah... ) , Gibb ( jangan tukar duit lagi tau! ), Halmee ( the Professor – besar dictionary tuh! ) , Baby, Nana and the sometimes party goers ( G, Jue, Jali and alamak, Marc Anthony )… I’m sorry I spoilt the surprise birthday party, guys… hehehe….

Life is... something that should be seen through the eyes of a child ( Part III )

Having posted to a secondary school tucked away somewhere in the remote area of Negeri Sembilan soon after completing my undergraduate studies might be one of the best experience that I ever had. Apart from the fact that I did my teaching practical training at an urban all-girls school ( where the girls sent me off with a huge chocolate cake and lots and lots of presents on my last day there ), I guess that it taught me a lot about life other than the one gained from various text books, reference materials and endless lectures meant to help us prepare for this particular moment – the posting.

Throughout the short stint here, I came to meet two special characters – Mazlan Pokok Kelapa and Isa, simply Isa, two special children in an otherwise all-As class. Being the first of the four classes in Form 3, the rest of the classmates wore dark blue uniforms ( translated: school prefects ) where else the duo wore white ( or what used to be white ). Ask any of the classmates, chances are they aspired to further their studies at a neighbouring MARA Junior College or Technical School when they proceed to the next form. As for the duo, I’m lucky enough if they could master the simple grammar rules.

Ask them to take out their Grammar 1 exercise book, you could guarantee that it would be the same book utilized for Bahasa Malaysia, Sejarah, Pendidikan Islam, Sains and even Matematik subjects! They could not read, especially where English is concerned. While others always competed to answer my questions or participated in class discussions, both would be seen ( and heard ) snoring! Often I found myself screaming my lungs off, drilling those two with simple tenses, leaving all of us feeling tense and tired. In the beginning, I could not comprehend the reason for their existence in Form 3 S. After being with them for a few weeks, I saw the rationale. You could not send the two to the last class – they were not slow, they were simply different, special.

Mazlan got his ‘pokok kelapa’ title ( doesn’t this remind you of Marsha’s pokok klapak? ) from his infamous Bahasa Malaysia essay. I could not really blame him, actually. When he was in Form 2, he was asked to write on “ Jiran-jiran Saya ” ( My Neighbours ). When he asked his teacher of the definition of ‘neighbours’, he was given ‘ yang duduk berhampiran dengan kita, contohnya di sebelah rumah awak ’. The explanation certainly had helped shed some light into this pour soul, who confidently came up with an essay that tickled the BM teacher ( and the rest who occupied the staff room ) when he read the piece.

This is what Mazlan had written: Saya ada ramai jiran. Jiran-jiran saya adalah pokok kelapa, pokok mangga, pokok betik … Thus, Mazlan got his title.

The PMR examination was around the corner. As a move to motivate and encourage ( and making sure! ) the PMR candidates to study, the Principal had called for daily morning assemblies especially for the third formers. During the assemblies, he would ask one or two students to share with the others what they had read the day before. Without knowing the duo’s background, the fierce-looking Principal asked a question that saw one hand raised up in the air – Isa’s hand. ( All the teachers stood still – we were holding our breaths for what was about to happen. )

Principal : Siapa buat kerja rumah malam tadi?

( Isa’s hand came up. Others kept silent. )

Principal : Bagus. Apa awak buat?

Isa : Saya tolong mak saya racik bawang, cikgu.

We tried hard to suppress our laughter.

Isa’s antics certainly did not stop there. Once, as we were on our way to a sports meet in Kuala Pilah, we saw him standing at a nearby bus stop – obviously waiting for the bus that plied Kuala Klawang – Seremban route – on an obviously school day. Upon seeing us, he put his finger on his lips, making the “Shh” signal.

A friend of mine remarked, “I wonder whether he knew that we ARE actually his teachers!”

I responded, “ Look at it this way. He actually treats us as his friends, instead of his teachers!!! ”

Why did I come up with that remark? Simple. A few days before, my housemate and I actually caught him coming out of a snooker center after a few days of not seeing him in school. When asked, he answered, “ Aku kena tangkap dengan polis lah… Dorang serbu tempat snooker minggu lepas….Tu aku tak datang sekolah tu.. Polis tu pun gelak je bila tengok aku lagi… ” ( I was arrested by the police who raided the snooker center last week. That explains my absence. Even the police laughed upon seeing me. ) It was the first time ever I heard someone using the pronoun ‘aku’ when speaking to his teachers! Had it been other students, the usage of ‘aku’ would send us into fit – but with Isa, you know that he is just different. Don’t waste your precious time lecturing him on the different types of appropriate pronouns – after all, he only has one exercise book. Who needs more when going to school is not a priority?

I left the school a year later. Every time I encounter incidents that are likely to drive me up the wall, I would take a deep breath and think of those two duo – Mazlan Pokok Kelapa and Isa – and wondering what might have happened to them now. Has Mazlan settled down and surrounded by real people as his neighours, and has Isa learnt to use different pronouns especially when dealing with the elders and authorities?